I Don't Even Like Cornflakes!

So, what is the point of this blog? For me to cry in your cornflakes? Or in my own cornflakes for that matter? No, not at all! I don’t even like cornflakes.

I am, however, going to share my experiences, share some other individual’s perspectives on dating, relationships and marriage, and add fun topics as we go forward. In addition to all of that, I am super curious about you, so feel free to share your thoughts. I encourage thoughtful, positive, and fun feedback.

Why Blissfully Single! Sweet and Sassy!? (Here comes the secret!)

I chose the name because I am happy!

I just happen to be single, sweet, and sassy too. So, why not write about that? But how can I be happy while single? This has to be a thought that most of the coupled up people think, right? That someone that is single must be miserable or that something is wrong with the person. Couldn’t it be that this person had some bad luck and that their Mr. Right is out there somewhere, taking his sweet time finding her? I think this has been the case for me and that it happens often with many women in our society, and even men too. Times have changed! It used to be that men and women would find each other and marry due to proximity. Now, there are factors that make dating much more difficult, such as work schedules, the internet, transportation, the amount of people that are available, and etc.

Another factor to consider is that there are many married couples out there that are super unhappy. So, just being in a relationship doesn’t make someone happy. Although, it seems like it’s more acceptable to be in an unhappy relationship. The whole idea of staying with someone that does not work for you makes me sad, but I also know that happiness is a mindset, meaning that your happiness starts with you. Another person cannot and will not make you happy.

Let’s talk a bit about the sweet and sassy part. I will always be sweet and sassy. That is just part of my personality and something I really like about myself. It seems like my sweetness came from my mother’s side of the family, or it may just be from my mother. She is kind and thoughtful, and I get those characteristics from her. Now, where do you think the sassiness comes from? You got it! From my father’s side. They don’t seem to be as free-spirited as me, but they do seem to be quite stubborn. That brings me to my next question for you.

What does sassy mean to you?

To me, it means free-spirited, fun, opinionated, strong, and confident. I was once told that I may be too free-spirited, and this was by someone I was in a romantic relationship with at the time. Uh, What? That’s a bad thing?

Not in my book! So, from now on, anyone that says something like that to me is not my person, and he can find the door. But I will tell you all about him later. Good times! That’s right, sassiness also includes sarcasm.

Are you ready for the good stuff? Make sure you stick around for the next post!



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