Trust Your Intuition

As I have aged, I have learned that a huge part of dating is the ability to trust your intuition.  If the situation doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. I hear from friends all the time that they really like someone, but they don’t feel a romantic vibe from them.  These friends also fear hurting these people. Well, what it comes down to is compatibility and intuition. Your gut is telling you something that your mind does not know yet or your mind knows, but feelings are involved.  No one wants to hurt another person. But then again, no one wants to be with the wrong person, and on top of that, be with the wrong person craving the end of the relationship.

It can be super tricky when you sorta like the person, but there is something telling you that the situation is not right.  In those situations, you want to give the relationship a shot, but you know you shouldn’t. In my case, I should have listened to my intuition.  You never know though! At this point, I feel it is more important to just listen to my intuition. When the situation arises, my mind may change depending on the individual.  When discussing my friend’s relationships, I stick with trusting intuition. I guess I am way better giving advice than sticking with my own.

What has gotten in the way with trusting my own intuition?  The idea that I gave up on the person too quickly and they were actually the person for me.  I always want to give people chances. So, I guess the final answer would be fear of letting the right person go!  By being wrong in my decision.