Vasectomy Secret

Have you ever started dating someone that left out a lot of details about themselves?


Just recently, I started hanging out with someone that I enjoyed being around.  Actually, we have been hanging out for most of the summer. In the beginning of the summer, I decided that I didn’t want to hang out with him much because of some of his interesting tendencies. It just wasn't for me! But then, I started falling for him a bit, and I figured I would give it another shot, even though there was already a deal breaker. I thought I could deal with the difference, which by itself, I probably could have because we never talked about it. But then there was the lack of communication.  That gets me! If you can’t talk to me or share ANYTHING with me, without me asking you about it, then it’s probably not going to work.


The other day, after a very unusual situation occurred, I asked him if he wanted kids.  A question I normally ask on a first date. But we didn’t even have a first date. Another red flag!


Guess how he responded.  I am thinking that you figured it out based on the title to this entry, right?  He doesn’t want kids, and he got a vasectomy a few years ago. Uh, What?


So apparently, he didn’t care about his future partner and what she wants.  There are women out there that still want their own biological children that may have not found their man or significant other yet.


My biggest issue is that he didn’t share that information with me, even after I had a conversation with him about being honest.  On top of that, he made a comment about me being too old for kids, but later said he was joking.  That wasn’t funny! Like, not at all!



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